Thursday, October 30, 2025

July 2025 -- Wrapping Up Softball

Cadence is a sucker for a good sunset (I mean, look at that sky!). She even has a timer on her phone to remind herself to check out the sky every night. I chuckle, though, as the seasons begin to change and the timer hasn't been adjusted, and her phone goes off when it's already dark! I snapped a photo of her as she hopped the fence to get a better view.

Cadence's team's last 14u softball games were vs. Delaware at Delaware on July 8th. Thankfully, they played two games. They lost the first game, 2-7. But they rallied (as they often did this season), and pulled off a W for the second game, with a final score of 10-6.

Cadence got to play 1st base and outfield.


and got on base!




Safe!


Going into this game, Cadence had shared that she probably wasn't going to tryout for the 16u team (and we didn't even know what the future of the team looked like at that time). We weighed out the pros and cons and Cadence realized that she would rather work and have time to study next spring/summer. I can't say I blame her. I think she had fun playing, but wasn't super close with any of her teammates and didn't love the sport enough to want to dedicate several nights a week to softball. It was bittersweet watching her play her last game. For the little girl who we never thought would play sports (she was always more into arts/music when she was younger), it was fun watching her grow and learn a new sport over the last several years. I'm excited to see what she becomes involved with next!

Chicago with the 15 Year Old

Back in February, I learned that SZA and Kendrick Lamar were touring together and that they had a show scheduled for the day after Cadence's birthday -- in Chicago! SZA is Cadence's ultimate favorite artist, so I talked to Danny and we decided to go for it. After seeing them perform together during the halftime show at the super bowl, I knew they'd put on a good show. And the timing and location were too perfect. I asked Cadence if she was up for it, and of course she was. 

We flew out of Columbus at 6pm, so we got to Chicago roughly the same time! We walked to Portillo's for dinner. The city was very colorful for pride month. It was so pretty!





We started out Friday and Saturday morning right at Do Rite for breakfast sandwiches and donuts! It's so convenient that there's a location on the first floor of Willis Tower -- which was right near the hotel where we were staying!


We spent Friday morning taking a stroll through the city. 





We ended up at Navy Pier. 

After I begrudgingly rode the swings with her (something I'll never do again!), we started to make our way back to the hotel . We stopped at a hole-in-the-wall restaurant and grabbed lunch. We befriended the owner, who we found out was also going to the concert, and he changed the restaurant music to SZA radio!

We got ready for the show at the hotel and then took a Lyft to Soldier Field. 


We stood in line for merch for what seemed like forever. But that's part of the concert experience, right?!

Waiting for the show to start!

Watching Cadence experience the concert was the best part. She was so happy. It didn't hurt that SZA and Kendrick put on one helluva show.



Each artist took the stage separately, and they alternated. 

The pyrotechnics were amazing. 


At the end, SZA and Kendrick took the stage together and performed Gloria and Luther. Everyone held up their phones with their flashlights when they performed All The Stars. It looked really neat inside the stadium. The show lasted roughly 3 hours and we stood up the entire time. It was such a good show.

There were people EVERYWHERE as we tried to leave the stadium.


We decided to walk the 2 miles back to the hotel. We had to walk away from the stadium to even try to get an Uber or Lyft, so by the time we started walking we figured we could just walk the entire way back. I later learned that Danny was tracking us the whole time and nervous for our lives. We stopped and got water and ice cream for dinner! The walk back was my favorite part of the whole day 😊

The next day, I realized too late that we should've already checked out of the hotel, so we quickly packed and I snapped a few pics of our room (which was upgraded due to Danny's status).




We had the whole day on Saturday to be in the city since our flight home wasn't until that night. We decided we would rent a quadcycle. Renting the bike almost didn't happen, though. On our way there, Cadence got a text from a softball teammate asking if she was going to be at the game. Surprisingly, neither of us formally told her coach that we would be in Chicago for the weekend. I could've sworn I texted her coach, but I couldn't find any proof. Maybe I had the thought to, and never did? We both felt awful for letting the team down. Thankfully, they won their games that day, with only 8 girls on the field. It rained early Sunday morning, so the 2nd day of the tournament was cancelled!

We had fun riding around the city and got some chuckles out of spectators.

We enjoyed lunch on a restaurant patio -- demonstrators marched by while we were there. 


We bought some Garrett popcorn and enjoyed a break at a park near our hotel while we snacked.

We had SUCH a nice time together in Chicago. Between Cadence's birthday, the concert, our favorite city, and mother/daughter time, we couldn't have asked for a better weekend. I have fond memories of that weekend, and I hope Cadence does, too.

Time with the Rileys

 I had some really cute pictures on my phone that feature the Riley family, so I had to include them!


We recreated the winter concert photo in the spring!

During the Eagle Classic weekend, Nolan played with the Big Walnut baseball team, so Cadence tagged along with Veronica and Cora to watch them play. They had some time to kill, so they spent some time at the creek nearby. Veronica sent me these photos!